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TARON EGERTON ( 267 • INSPECTOR LEWIS • 7.03 & 7.04 “THE RAMBLIN’ BOY” ) [25 Feb 2021|01:49pm]

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TARON EGERTON
267 • INSPECTOR LEWIS • 7.03 & 7.04 “THE RAMBLIN’ BOY”
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ELLIOT PAGE ( 388 • INCEPTION ) [24 Feb 2021|04:36pm]

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ELLIOT PAGE
388 • INCEPTION
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OSCAR ISAAC ( 440 • AGORA ) [24 Feb 2021|02:40pm]

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OSCAR ISAAC
440 • AGORA
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TOM HIDDLESTON ( 39 • AVENGERS: ENDGAME ) [23 Feb 2021|06:45pm]

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TOM HIDDLESTON
39 • AVENGERS: ENDGAME
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[23 Feb 2021|08:12am]

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[bad_username]
I'm genuinely over having this little bit of brain power, these specific muses and not enough time.

And it's becoming really hard to shake this stupid feeling that I'm constantly failing people. See, I even know it's stupid.
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TARON EGERTON ( 444 • ROBIN HOOD ) [22 Feb 2021|03:06pm]

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TARON EGERTON
444 • ROBIN HOOD
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[21 Feb 2021|07:10pm]

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[shady_af]
I'm incredibly frustrated that I can't seem to tag my SLP. It's like all passion has been sucked out of me. I haven't even read her tags, which is never like me. I used to always be excited to write with her. She's an amazing writer and I enjoy our kids and the multiple lines we have. But something holds me back and it breaks my heart. She's been super understanding and patient with me. Yet, I wish I could tag them and I don't know what to do about it. I feel like I'll just disappoint her and I don't want to do that. She's got lines in a comm to keep her busy, thankfully. I just hate that I'm slow to respond and the more I think about it, the more conflicted I feel. I've struggled with depression, so that's a big chunk of it. I guess I shouldn't put as much pressure on myself as I do, but I'm annoyed I can't tag like how I used to.
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NICO TORTORELLA ( 163 • SCREAM 4 ) [21 Feb 2021|04:42pm]

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NICO TORTORELLA
163 • SCREAM 4
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[20 Feb 2021|08:41pm]

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[gallifreyan]
I'm so sick of people acting like conflicts and personality clashes from years ago are a good reason to completely blacklist certain people when it comes to RP. It might not come off so disingenuous if they didn't simultaneously continue writing with people who have been terrible. It feels like there's this pervading notion that these two are some massive problem when honestly they just mind their own business and keep to themselves and their friends. Which is hardly the biggest sin to ever occur in RP.

I think the biggest thing for me is the hypocrisy. Like okay. If you don't like someone, you don't have to write with them. But don't act like they're these pariahs of RP that nobody should give the time of day to, while simultaneously continuing to write with other people who have actively done negative things to you. At this point it honestly feels like people are holding on to grudges from years ago and it's exhausting.

Sometimes they weren't even the problem. I can acknowledge that my own conflicts with them were largely my own fault. And we've communicated about that and moved past it. And I really feel like it's easier for some people to blame them for everything and hold a grudge than it is to just critically examine their own motivations and actions.

And honestly sometimes it feels like people who don't even know them hate on them for no reason other than it's the cool thing to do.

Like, I've been guilty of it myself in the past. I held on to things for way too long. But there comes a time when you have to stop holding a grudge for the sake of it and acknowledge that none of us are perfect and move on. And certainly there's a time to stop acting like they're the devil incarnate.

I don't know. Maybe this is pointless to post and nobody gives a shit what I think. Or maybe it's just going to start a fight. But I just feel like they don't deserve to be treated the way they are by people.
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[20 Feb 2021|05:59pm]

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[forrants]
Not sure if I'm on this hill alone or not...

It's really frustrating me that PBads is taken over by smut and kink ads right now when that stuff would normally go over at RatedX. I don't begrudge anyone that doesn't care, it might just be a me thing.
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ZACHARY QUINTO ( 485 • STAR TREK ) [19 Feb 2021|04:19pm]

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ZACHARY QUINTO
485 • STAR TREK
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JAMES MCAVOY ( 350 • WELCOME TO THE PUNCH ) [18 Feb 2021|04:09pm]

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JAMES MCAVOY
350 • WELCOME TO THE PUNCH
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JAMES MCAVOY ( 350 • WELCOME TO THE PUNCH ) [18 Feb 2021|04:07pm]

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JAMES MCAVOY
350 • WELCOME TO THE PUNCH
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[17 Feb 2021|07:40pm]

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[derezzed]
more of an honest question than a rant.

if you discover that a handful of players you know created a gpsl, and that they didn't invite you, but as far as you know, there aren't any personal ooc issues between you and that group of players, would you feel comfortable approaching them to ask if you could join?
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SEBASTIAN STAN ( 96 • LOGAN LUCKY ) [15 Feb 2021|05:32pm]

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SEBASTIAN STAN
96 • LOGAN LUCKY
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[13 Feb 2021|02:13pm]

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[bellewether]
i know ive said it before, but some of ya'll are really out here advertising for line partners with literally no ideas to contribute beyond a baseline relationship title. it's alarming how often i'm running into this problem. things like "friends", "neighbors", "eventual love interest", etc are not plot driving ideas. if you can't push beyond vague concepts, or if you have no basic idea of what your character's ambitions, goals, or wants are so that plot discussions can be more than one sided, maybe don't complain when your toons struggle to get bites.
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