Charles/Charlie
Then you should slap Luca around. College, especially this college, is all about testing boundaries.
And girl, that's the first rule. Forget that bullshit. The only thing you don't have a choice on is cooking. And that's only because the team will kill you if I show up for practice cranky and starving.
Being forced to do things leads to regrets. I'd rather experiment. So, so you decide you like something, or go Yeah, not for me. But I don't force my girls into anything.