Neville and Ernie
We all do, Neville, I assure you. All those things are probably the things she fancies about you. Don't question it, just enjoy it.
You do realize we were children thrust into incredibly difficult situations that... Quite literally none of us were mature enough to understand or cope with, right? Not very many of us have legitimately good coping skills, or any idea of how to work through things without completely shutting down. Myself included.