so, hi. i want to dip my toe in the actual bdsm world, rather than just some role playing and light bondage, as a sub. i know i need to discuss everything in detail, tell the dom what's allowed and what isn't, get a safe word in check, be in a safe place, have after care, and generally be honest. do you have any words of advice, by any chance? i just know you know your shit, and you seem cool.