Oh god Dani, he used to not even use safe words, like at all. He hasn't had much formal education and he's sensitive about it, thinks he's slow..which he's not! But it makes it difficult at times to teach him things, things he needs to know, because his feelings can get hurt. He's honestly this sweet, loving, loyal guy and you being his mentor would be perfect. Despite being the epitome of a badass, you're also one of the most intelligent, intuitive and yes, truly kind people I've ever met. He's just..he's my family, you know? He's the only family I have and I've got to make this right. I'll speak with him tonight and get back to you. The sooner this can happen, the better I'm thinking.