You realize, Penn, that you sound kinda like me. I didn't get into music to be rich and famous. Granted, the parents already had the "rich" thing down, but I never expected or even really wanted the famous part. And I'm still kinda not, so I'm good with that. I got into music because it was what I wanted to do. It was what I was good at and what I loved. The parents weren't thrilled and I'd "never become anything" by being a studio musician, but I didn't care.
The college endeavor is not a waste of time, so don't get the whole defeatist attitude about it. :P That's my job!
I agree with the New Orleans idea. And if all else fails, go talk to my mom and dad. They'd drive you crazy, I'm sure, but there's always something to be done to one of their properties.