Penn.
For future reference? If it bothers the girl, it's never stupid. Even if it is stupid, it's not. And yes, I know that makes absolutely no sense whatsoever, but if you really think about it, it does. And yes, one day you will realize that I'm a genius for letting you in on that little tip.
You two need to sit and talk and get it all out in the open and just see where things go. Do not make me quote you to yourself again. You know I'll do it!