I'm not sure which of us wasn't clear enough there, but I'm pretty sure we're not talking about the same thing at this point. Probably me, b/c fuck knows I'm not firing on all cylinders right now. What I *meant*, even if it's not what I managed to say, was that there's no way in hell you'd ever actually hurt him. Telling him no isn't the same thing, even if it did hurt his feelings.