Pansy
Actually, yes, the secret-keeping thing has made me a little defensive. I probably shouldn't have snapped at you, but frankly, I don't like hearing critiques of my situation. I did what I thought was right, and I'm doing the best I can.
And for your information, I had plenty of support from my family.
And it's not like I didn't use protection. The charms just aren't foolproof.