I can understand about Tori. I too lost a close friend due to a fight that was never resolved because she just wanted to drop it, instead of working through our issues. Some people are only meant to be in our lives for a short time or end up coming back in a later point when you or the other person has changed. It's hard to stay close with someone when you just can't relate or understand their lifestyle. It's also insensitive that she doesn't have much sympathy for people who have been bullied and/or suffer from a mental illness. A lot of it is just ignorance on her part because she just hasn't experienced it so she can't relate. I think when she gets older, develops, and matures, she may be more open to listening and trying to understand another perspective. Until then, maybe you should try opening up to someone else who may be more supportive and insightful than she is. After all, maybe someone else in your life is going through something similar to you so you'd have a chance to express yourself without feeling like no one gets it. You aren't alone in your struggle, I can promise you that.