t o r i (![[info]](https://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} _sincere_) wrote, |
Okay, so .. I know we've never exactly been close. Rob is my friend. He's been there for me through a lot of stuff and knows what I've had to deal with. There have been moments where he's been a complete dick, yes .. but for the most part, he's very supportive and an absolute sweetheart.
I know that you guys fought before you left for Boston. I know because you came to stay at my house. Which .. I don't regret letting you stay one bit. You needed someone to talk to and a place to crash. I'm all for lending an ear and a bed whenever you need one.
But .. I gotta say. A lot of the stuff that you're saying Robby did? Or is doing? Doesn't sound at all like him. I mean, I know he takes his job very seriously. And like Rome, if Rob's upset .. you kind of just have to let him go for awhile, let him cool off before trying to talk to him. If you get in his face right away or hang around all the time, he'll just get more frustrated and infuriated. I know .. I've got one at home just like him!!
I know that he loves you, Keely. I know because .. well .. he wouldn't have married you if he didn't. I knew for a long time that he wanted to marry you, that you were the girl he wanted .. even when you two were fighting and not together. You just gotta give him some space for awhile. Go back to Boston, do your filming, call him and talk to him without arguing over what may or may not have been said. Let him do his thing in Australia and deal with the fact that he can be a pompous ass all on his own time.
Being married to these two takes a very strong female, a very strong spirit. I know you have it in you and I know you love him enough to work this out. Don't give up so soon, okay? Really. Don't.
If you need somebody to talk to when you get back in LA, you know where to find me. The door is always open.