Honestly? Despite having sex positive characters I prefer doing ftb too or just summarising and moving on to the after, so that’s more than fine!
That actually sounds really good for them. Lily wasn’t used to serious relationships before this, but she would probably have fallen for him over time anyway, so she’d have moved on to the idea of being exclusive without a real fight. She’s also a big quidditch fan and her mother works as a quidditch reporter, so she’d be glad she got a player for a husband, lol.
I’m a sucker for icons, so I’d probably vote for either Paul or Joseph for that reason.