Hi! Full disclosure - I ship it, and enjoy Colin and wouldn't mind having one in Madison but am not looking to jump Pen into a relationship with anyone.
My goal of playing Pen is to explore the character outside her infatuation with Colin. She would do well to expand her horizons, and grow up and figure out her shit - and maybe at some point end up with Colin, or someone else depending on what happens in her life in Madison.
I think she needs some time to be Pen in a society that is going to accept her in ways her own doesn't and see what happens to her.
That isn't don't app him, more of a view into what I've got on the to do list for her.