Rabastan
Your dignity. Goodness, that's quite a sacrifice for celebrations.
Everyone seems to forget that being posh isn't the same as being rich. Would you like to fund my travels around the world, Rabastan? Perhaps we should scandalize everyone and go together. Anyway, I traveled a bit before and I like it well enough, but... haven't you noticed that there's a war happening? Much as traveling would avoid such things, many people I care about are in danger. I can't leave now.
A few months. The environment suits me, and it will provide an income. Unless I am targeted in a manner that gets in the way of success, of course, but there is little I can do about that.
Perhaps discussing this with you is tempting fate. I know where your brother's allegiances lie. What about your own, Rabastan?