"I'd say better to fuck, but the two aren't mutually exclusive." Tao let his hands move along Riley's sides, not wishing to break contact while he waited for the shifter to decide, to voice what he wanted. With a nod he reached up and hooked a finger through the ring. "I think I can manage that." Sliding from behind him he stood up next to the bed and pulled at the collar for Riley to follow. He had a few leashes, some more well used then others and he grabbed a two inch thick leather that was used enough to be supple still.