Theia/Evan
You don’t want to become the new Lucius, an accessory to your brilliant wife’s parties?
If I don’t make you tear up just a little bit at how stunning I look, then I will have failed.
I’m sure our mothers will insist on an engagement party anyway, so be prepared for that and for them to fight over the details while we are planning our elopement. It’s possible they may even take so long we are married before they can have an engagement party.