Re: Ron | Draco
You're not being selfish, because how could you possibly understand? You're from a huge family with a small house and a dad who likes muggle things. Of course you don't know what it's like to be the treasured heir of an ancient pureblood line. And for the record, I think all this heirloom, elitist pureblood stuff is complete bullshit. But Pansy doesn't, and that's he point.
Don't just give in totally to what she wants, because you have a right to live a life that won't make you hate yourself. But so does she. I like a damn cat poster, but it's all about compromise. Get rid of the really evil shit, but don't touch the really sentimental stuff. Live in a big ass house with house elves but have a backyard the kids can play in and don't make everything too expensive or important for them to touch. Let them know their traditions and customs are important, but that it doesn't mean they are more important than anyone and anything else. Don't raise anyone pureblood Prince and princesses, but don't make Pansy stop being one.
Or do whatever. it's your life.
And yeah, you really do. Oh, and you NEVER tell Pansy we talked.