You're not the only one missing three weeks. I never said to sit around with a smile on your face totally calm when who the hell knows what happened. All I said was you should not be freaking out because there's a lack of details. And freaking out will just cause everyone else to freak out, and it won't do you any good except to keep escalating the freaking out.
I haven't been here as long as some, but, from what I can tell from various things I've heard, it seems to me one of the first rules when something strange happens here is that it is likely caused by the village magic. Given that information, it's safe to assume that this is likely another one of those cases, that, for whatever reason, this place had another strange magical occurrence. What the details are, I don't know, but I'm betting it's safe to assume it caused this mess. There's also the fact that there's no reason just the two of us would be targeted to have our memories obliviated.And I'm really not sure what else to say to you because I'm not really Gran, not really how you remember me at least, so I'll probably just not say anything else since I can't