Caradorc
I know you can handle it, I just don't know if you will. You and I are rather the same when it comes to actually handling personal problems. Which is: we don't.
I'm going to ignore that whole bit except to say two things: 1) I trust you whole heartedly but I won't tell you anything else about the group. Unless ... 2) If you want to join, you know you can always talk to me about it.