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Tweak says, "i love you coco"

Sébastien Desrosiers (lavieenrose_) wrote,
@ 2036-01-07 14:39:00

Dating Profile

Bastien, 23

Omega

Dating-to-proper relationship

Somnophilia, restraint, older men, some roughness~

Tentatively dipping my toes into the dating pool. Not really looking for anything overly casual. Must love dogs and food and the outdoors. Pourquoi y a-t-il tant de gens avec des poissons morts sur leurs photos?

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	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:25 am UTC (link)
	yep! and there's a version that she woke up, not because of a kiss, but because she was in labor. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:26 am UTC (link)
	Ah, yes, when the king (not the prince) takes advantage of her. It is terrible but here we are. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:30 am UTC (link)
	yes! there's so much in fairytales and folklore that just [...] wow. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:36 am UTC (link)
	Well, being cautionary tales many times, it is unsurprising. We are treated much more gently now. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:40 am UTC (link)
	i prefer the more gentle at times, you know? i live in a whimsy world some days. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:45 am UTC (link)
	I think it is a person-by-person thing. I might have liked the rougher stories better. Maybe it would have prepared me better for the people on this app... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:46 am UTC (link)
	oh no, are you okay?? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:47 am UTC (link)
	eh, it's... They're all so sexual and I am not. It is very uncomfortable. I've not even kissed someone. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:50 am UTC (link)
	it's okay to not be sexual. if it's any help? i'm inexperienced myself. curious, but also very nervous about anything happening. are you just not interested in sex or do you need that connection first? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:51 am UTC (link)
	I'm French. I want to be in love. And we are... much more reserved than portrayed on television. People do not kiss even unless they are dating. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:55 am UTC (link)
	and if that's how you are and what makes you comfortable? that's really okay. nothing to be ashamed about in the slightest, bastien. kissing is very nice, especially if you like the person and they know what they are doing. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:59 am UTC (link)
	Then why do these men ask me questions to make me feel ashamed? Like I am the wrong one? At least I know not to bother with them anymore. I will have to take your word for it... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:00 am UTC (link)
	what are they asking if i might ask? [...] well, if you want, i could kiss you? just a kiss. so you know what it's like! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 02:08 am UTC (link)
	Just making me feel like I am wrong for asking why all the questions need to be sexual. [...] Ah, that is sweet? But I think I would not enjoy it. I prefer men? So it would not be the same. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:10 am UTC (link)
	then that's on them, not you, there's nothing wrong with you. oh! i am so sorry. i didn't realize. i can be a real head in the clouds oblivious at times. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 02:11 am UTC (link)
	Thank you. Oh, you're fine! I don't say it much? It doesn't really come up. Maybe that is my problem. I have not painted myself as queer enough. 🙄🙄 (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:14 am UTC (link)
	i mean it. there's no right or wrong way to be queer, either. you're fine just the way they are. sexuality is such a spectrum, i shouldn't assume all guys like girls anyway! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 02:18 am UTC (link)
	I know you do. I can tell It's okay. Many people on here assume about me, I think. Women making offers and me not knowing how to respond... I think I was propositioned today. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:19 am UTC (link)
	❤️ i'm sorry i added to the assumptions, really! hope you can forgive me for being an ignorami. propositioned??? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 02:20 am UTC (link)
	You're perfectly fine, I promise. Yes, I said that someone's friend must be a sadist as a funny joke and she came and asked if I wanted to find out... I do not wish to find out, no. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:22 am UTC (link)
	holy wow. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 02:24 am UTC (link)
	It was on the same thread where I was asking why all the questions had to be sexual too... I was very uncomfortable. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:27 am UTC (link)
	i'm really sorry. not everyone is sexual, and that's okay! sexuality and comfort are a spectrum. you can always come hang out with me, pen and tasha. we can always tone down the boy/girl talk for you, if you want. we're friendly and don't bite! well, maybe a little if one of us gets hangry... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 02:57 am UTC (link)
	If only everyone listened to that. I spoke to Penny! She's very good. I like her. I think she wants me to cook for her. I'll make something enough for all three of you~ So then there will be no... what is hangry? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 03:00 am UTC (link)
	agreed. the world would be much better! yes, she's the best. hangry means hungry + angry which can = very cranky people. so food would be great. what do you make? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)