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Tweak says, "MY HED IS PASTEDE ON YEY"

Viola Salem (lovedrunk_) wrote,
@ 2012-04-13 01:07:00

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!journal, viola salem, viola's corner

Alright ladies and gents! Things have been WAAAAY too quiet around here lately. I definitely think it's time we start thinking about the important things in life, such as relationships. I have been lax on my matchmaking duties as of late, so I'm remedying that right now!

So! It's time for Viola's Corner. This is the portion of your journal reading where you can ask/tell me ANYTHING. Relationship advice/questions, matchmaking wishlists, gossip, advice in general, ANYTHING. All comments will be screened (unless you state otherwise and don't care) since this is an open forum and I am not in the business of spreading other people's personal issues around.

With that being said, let's fire away! I'm bored, I'm ready, so hit me with your best shot!

OOC Note: For fun, we're gonna pretend the comments are screened. So unless someone states otherwise, all comments and Viola's answers can only be seen by her and the original poster. :)

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	SCREENED POST fire_in_myheart 2012-04-13 06:21 am UTC (link)
	How do you know when a guy...wants something more with you, or is just being nice to you because he feels sorry for you? And more over, is one ever ready to move on from their first love? It's obviously over, and there is another whom might want something else and its been long enough....right? (Reply to this) (Thread)

lovedrunk_
2012-04-14 12:44 am UTC (link)

Signals are tricky things. It's hard to judge the way guys think because they are so different from us. The best way to know for sure is to straight out ask, but I understand us girls don't like to take the reins that way. I doubt anything is born out of pity. People wouldn't send you gifts or spend time with you if they just felt sorry for you. There's a limit to charity, my dear.

First loves are hard. You will never forget them, and it's hard to move on at times. If you feel like you're ready, then it's time. There's no 'long enough' where love is concerned. You will know when you're ready, and holding on too long can be unhealthy too. So long as you're sure about what and who you want, you will know when the time is right to try again.

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