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Tweak says, "Avast!"

Viola Salem (lovedrunk_) wrote,
@ 2012-04-13 01:07:00

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!journal, viola salem, viola's corner

Alright ladies and gents! Things have been WAAAAY too quiet around here lately. I definitely think it's time we start thinking about the important things in life, such as relationships. I have been lax on my matchmaking duties as of late, so I'm remedying that right now!

So! It's time for Viola's Corner. This is the portion of your journal reading where you can ask/tell me ANYTHING. Relationship advice/questions, matchmaking wishlists, gossip, advice in general, ANYTHING. All comments will be screened (unless you state otherwise and don't care) since this is an open forum and I am not in the business of spreading other people's personal issues around.

With that being said, let's fire away! I'm bored, I'm ready, so hit me with your best shot!

OOC Note: For fun, we're gonna pretend the comments are screened. So unless someone states otherwise, all comments and Viola's answers can only be seen by her and the original poster. :)

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	lovedrunk_ 2012-04-13 09:58 pm UTC (link)
	Then I guess you have to decide if her feelings are worth the restraint! Does that mean you'd rather date a dude, Tylen? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	as_a_crow_flies 2012-04-13 10:02 pm UTC (link)
	We are talking about me, right? Restraint hasn't really been a friend of mine up to this point. I try talking to her rationally but she is completely IRRATIONAL. The only time she isn't is when I get her to take her clothes off. Shit, does that mean I need to "talk" to her in bed? That so ruins the mood. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

lovedrunk_
2012-04-13 10:13 pm UTC (link)

I understand this, but it's never too late to teach yourself new things. If you're expecting her to act a different way then you have to meet her in the middle.

Girls are not really known for rationality. She is probably insecure, or maybe she is new to this whole thing. Either way, she is feeling threatened by something and thinks she is not good enough. You can either talk to her and put her mind at ease or you can decide it is not working.

You don't have to talk during. You can talk after. Or before. Girls can often surprise you, and if you've never told her that you think she's the moon and stars and better than others girls then she might just be thinking you want something more than what she is giving.

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