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Tweak says, "I is for Ignition"

Sébastien Desrosiers (lavieenrose_) wrote,
@ 2036-01-07 14:39:00

Dating Profile

Bastien, 23

Omega

Dating-to-proper relationship

Somnophilia, restraint, older men, some roughness~

Tentatively dipping my toes into the dating pool. Not really looking for anything overly casual. Must love dogs and food and the outdoors. Pourquoi y a-t-il tant de gens avec des poissons morts sur leurs photos?

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	pixiebell 2023-01-26 07:18 pm UTC (link)
	Pixie swiped right on you! (Reply to this) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-26 10:30 pm UTC (link)
	Bastien has swiped right on you! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-26 10:31 pm UTC (link)
	hi! i didn't want to lose contact so we can talk about bats and other cute things we think of! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-26 10:32 pm UTC (link)
	Yes! Very good. Sometimes I go silent for a long time but don't think you did anything wrong. My sleep is very bad. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-26 10:33 pm UTC (link)
	that's alright. i get having weird schedules. i work and am in my last year of college, so i get it! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-26 10:34 pm UTC (link)
	What do you study? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-26 10:36 pm UTC (link)
	majoring in english lit with an emphasis on folklore. i am planning on getting my masters in it eventually so i can travel all over, and possibly add anthropology to the mix! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-26 10:37 pm UTC (link)
	This is very good! My family has a deep believe we are somehow linked to Sleeping Beauty~ Maybe it's true somewhere far back. I certainly sleep like it. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-26 10:39 pm UTC (link)
	thank you! oh?? like for real or as an inside joke? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-26 10:44 pm UTC (link)
	My mother is called Briar. My father is Phillipe. My sister is Aurore and my brother is Jour. And I... have a sleep disorder no one can figure out where I sleep for several days in a row. We are also a very old family from France. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:23 am UTC (link)
	oh wow! the sleeping beauty of disney is much more tame than the actual tale, some fairytales have scarred me. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:24 am UTC (link)
	With the grandmother being an ogress who tries to eat Briar-Rose and the children? Yes, Disney tamed much! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:25 am UTC (link)
	yep! and there's a version that she woke up, not because of a kiss, but because she was in labor. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:26 am UTC (link)
	Ah, yes, when the king (not the prince) takes advantage of her. It is terrible but here we are. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:30 am UTC (link)
	yes! there's so much in fairytales and folklore that just [...] wow. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:36 am UTC (link)
	Well, being cautionary tales many times, it is unsurprising. We are treated much more gently now. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:40 am UTC (link)
	i prefer the more gentle at times, you know? i live in a whimsy world some days. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:45 am UTC (link)
	I think it is a person-by-person thing. I might have liked the rougher stories better. Maybe it would have prepared me better for the people on this app... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:46 am UTC (link)
	oh no, are you okay?? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:47 am UTC (link)
	eh, it's... They're all so sexual and I am not. It is very uncomfortable. I've not even kissed someone. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:50 am UTC (link)
	it's okay to not be sexual. if it's any help? i'm inexperienced myself. curious, but also very nervous about anything happening. are you just not interested in sex or do you need that connection first? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:51 am UTC (link)
	I'm French. I want to be in love. And we are... much more reserved than portrayed on television. People do not kiss even unless they are dating. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 01:55 am UTC (link)
	and if that's how you are and what makes you comfortable? that's really okay. nothing to be ashamed about in the slightest, bastien. kissing is very nice, especially if you like the person and they know what they are doing. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lavieenrose_ 2023-01-27 01:59 am UTC (link)
	Then why do these men ask me questions to make me feel ashamed? Like I am the wrong one? At least I know not to bother with them anymore. I will have to take your word for it... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	pixiebell 2023-01-27 02:00 am UTC (link)
	what are they asking if i might ask? [...] well, if you want, i could kiss you? just a kiss. so you know what it's like! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)