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Viola Salem (lovedrunk_) wrote,
@ 2012-04-13 01:07:00

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Alright ladies and gents! Things have been WAAAAY too quiet around here lately. I definitely think it's time we start thinking about the important things in life, such as relationships. I have been lax on my matchmaking duties as of late, so I'm remedying that right now!

So! It's time for Viola's Corner. This is the portion of your journal reading where you can ask/tell me ANYTHING. Relationship advice/questions, matchmaking wishlists, gossip, advice in general, ANYTHING. All comments will be screened (unless you state otherwise and don't care) since this is an open forum and I am not in the business of spreading other people's personal issues around.

With that being said, let's fire away! I'm bored, I'm ready, so hit me with your best shot!

OOC Note: For fun, we're gonna pretend the comments are screened. So unless someone states otherwise, all comments and Viola's answers can only be seen by her and the original poster. :)

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lovedrunk_
2012-04-13 03:26 pm UTC (link)

First of all, I just think you should stop beating around the bush and just get back with Audrey already. Just so we're clear. Now! Onto your questions:

Unfortunately, there is no way to convince someone of something like that without solid proof. You can try talking to her, but chances are she will think you're being paranoid (or jealous depending on the situation) if you have no reason for saying such a thing. Still, airing your concerns doesn't hurt so long as you present them in a rational manner. The person can choose what to believe, and you've done all you can.

That is another tricky one given our society. Of course, safety is the main priority for you and those you love, but happiness shouldn't be overlooked. If you believe the person you love is in danger, it is up to your best judgment. Me personally? I would just say screw it and try my best to protect them because I know how it feels to lose the person you are supposed to be with and I don't want to feel that again. It's selfish, though, so maybe it's not the best choice. Just decide what you can and can't live with, maybe try talking to your parents reasonably. They might surprise you. In the end, it's your life, so the decisions you make have to be yours. If that makes sense.

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royal_slacker
2012-04-13 07:37 pm UTC (link)

~~God I wish....~~

I have aired them! ~~perhaps not in the most rational fashion but oh well~~ I just don't want her to get hurt and I KNOW it will happen!

I'm SO tired of feeling like this. But she is always mad at me and the Vampire court is threatening to kill her. And I told her that and now she is acting even more mad at me.

I love your faith in reasonable conversation.

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